You may appear one way. A way that seems accepted to the norm and to others you are a part of the team. The human race team. Just an individual. No label. Just who you are. You love who you love and you accept everyone as they are.
We often get caught up in what we think people should be based on what they "look like." What someone presents to the world by their looks does not define who they are inside.
It happens to me on the daily- a look, a judgement and an assumption that you think you know my life, likes and dislikes. When we start asking questions and expressing genuine interest in people without passing judgement, only then will we really stop to look at our own internal version of ourselves.